Should I divorce my spouse?

I think that I have heard every reason possible on why people have gotten divorced.  They have said, “My spouse has cheated on me”, “I have cheated on my spouse”, “We have grown apart”, “We don’t love each other anymore”, and so on.  No matter what the reason is, there is always  regret in the lives of those who have divorced.  Either because of divorcing or because of the actions in their lives that made the divorce happen.

Read the following and think about it:

By law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. Romans 7:2 (NIV)

But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.  Matthew 5:32 (NIV)

“Why has God abandoned us?” you cry. I’ll tell you why; it is because the Lord has seen your treachery in divorcing your wives who have been faithful to you through the years, the companions you promised to care for and keep. You were united to your wife by the Lord. In God’s wise plan, when you married, the two of you became one person in His sight. And what does He want? Godly children from your union. Therefore guard your passions! Keep faith with the wife of your youth. For the Lord, the God of Israel, says He hates divorce and cruel men. Therefore control your passions—let there be no divorcing of your wives.  Malachi 2:14-16 (TLB)

Now, for those who are married I have a command, not just a suggestion. And it is not a command from me, for this is what the Lord Himself has said: A wife must not leave her husband. But if she is separated from him, let her remain single or else go back to him. And the husband must not divorce his wife.  I Corinthians 7:10-11 (TLB)

If a Christian has a wife who is not a Christian, but she wants to stay with him anyway, he must not leave her or divorce her. And if a Christian woman has a husband who isn’t a Christian, and he wants her to stay with him, she must not leave him. For perhaps the husband who isn’t a Christian may become a Christian with the help of his Christian wife. And the wife who isn’t a Christian may become a Christian with the help of her Christian husband. Otherwise, if the family separates, the children might never come to know the Lord; whereas a united family may, in God’s plan, result in the children’s salvation.  I Corinthians 7:12-14 (TLB)

What do you think?  Should you have gotten a divorce?  Should you get a divorce?  How can you reconcile?  Is serving the Lord the key?